Itโs bad enough there are so many misleading โFAKE NEWSโ articles circulating the web about the keto diet right now, full of misinformation and scare tactics, but the chaos and confusion within our own keto communities is just totally mind-blowing.
Should you eat high protein, eat high fat, limit protein, count calories, take electrolytes? Does eating high fat mean eating low protein? Is fasting required to lose weight? And why are vegetables all of a sudden BAD for you, or are they?
Itโs enough to make your head spin!
Then thereโs the dogma, food shaming, fast-bragging, inflammatory comments and childish arguments. ๐คฆโโ๏ธ
Itโs TOTAL DISORDER out there.
Thereโs people dishing out โhealth adviceโ on Instagram, and worse: people taking advice from random strangers online for โa quick fixโ without knowing the context or history behind that advice, doing their own research on it โ or considering the potential side effects.
Following up on my last post: Keto vs Atkins I want to discuss some of these HOT TOPICS openly and clear up the confusion, or at least give you a better โfilterโ to help you easily navigate all the chatter and make smart choices.
Fat vs Protein vs Calories โ What?!
Iโll show you some VERY confusing social media updates about fat vs protein and calorie talk etc, and WHY theyโre misleading and/or confusing.
Each of these points needs a lot more explanation, so after you read through this let me know what interests YOU most โ and weโll do a deep dive into those specific topics. ๐
Common Keto Myths in Misleading Keto Articles
Letโs take a look at this article as just one example, with all kinds of inaccuracies about the keto diet: โKeto Diet: What Older Adults Should Knowโ on SilverSneakers.com
The first part of the article starts out great, getting the facts straight. But it takes a nose dive from there, then closes with the all-too-common hateful arguments in the comments.
The article itself is not helpful at all, but the โdiet fightingโ at the end is a total turn-off, and very confusing (and not very encouraging) for anyone looking to improve their health.
Here are 5 points from that article that I donโt personally agree with:
โ 1. โItโs complicatedโ and, โItโs a lot of work.โ
NOT TRUE. You have to eat anyway, itโs just a matter of deciding what to eat. Thatโs all. I donโt do any major planning, meal prep or calculating into what I eat every day. Itโs actually very easy.
When I first started eating low carb (keto) I didnโt even use a macro tracker or app. I just read labels or Googled things and stuck to 20 net carbs per day. Thatโs it.
โ 2. โTo lose weight on any diet, you have to consume fewer calories than you burn.โ
This is a common misconception. I lost all of my weight just eating very low carb โ without counting calories and without exercise.
In fact, what โsold meโ on Atkins / the keto diet was this statement by my mother, who had been doing it since the 70โs: โYou can eat as much as you need to stay both physically AND emotionally satisfied as long as itโs 20 net carbs or less per day.โ
And thatโs exactly what I did in the beginning, even if that meant bingeing on a box of Atkins bars, or eating an entire pound of bacon dipped in mayonnaise at night instead of chips & dip.
I lost 8 pounds in the first 10 days, and went on to reach my goal weight.
Of course once youโre in ketosis, itโs really hard to overeat. Itโs a natural appetite suppressant and curbs your cravings, which just makes it EASY.
When I did finally start tracking, I was eating 2,000+ calories most days with a very sedentary lifestyle. ๐คทโโ๏ธ
Also see this excerpt from the 1972 edition of Dr. Atkins book.
โ 3. โOn this (keto) diet, youโre cutting out almost all dairy, so youโre not getting calcium or vitamin D.โ
What?! Unless youโre eating dairy-free due to an allergy, thatโs totally NOT true. Most people I know that eat keto enjoy plenty of heavy cream, cheese, real butter, etc.
โ 4. โall those carbs you cut will be replaced with fat, and youโll probably eat much less protein than you are now โ or certainly than you have on other low-carb diets. That can be a bad thing for people who want to retain muscle mass while losing weight or as they age.โ
Also not true. I eat more than double the recommended daily amount of protein most days while staying below 25% of my total daily calories.
You can easily increase your protein by grams, but still eat at least 70% of your total daily calories in healthy fats. I recently increased my daily protein again without any problem.
I wasnโt tracking macronutrients before I went keto over 8 years ago, but Iโm quite sure Iโm eating WAY more (good) protein than I ever have in my life. ๐
โ 5. โLong-term side effects can include kidney stones and nutrient deficiencies.โ
*sigh* This is not true either.
Interestingly, there have been a number of cases where people report โgettingโ or passing kidney stones in the first 6-12 months of eating keto.
But hereโs the thing: it takes YEARS for kidney stones to form, and they can lie dormant for a long time without causing you any discomfort. Itโs when they start to move and/or pass that they become painful and you even become aware of them.
Some speculate that something about changing your diet or even eating a ketogenic low carb diet may cause them to break up and pass (which is a good thing), but there is absolutely ZERO proof that they cause kidney stones to form in the first place.
Also see: The Top 12 Keto Myths Debunked After 150,000 Days of Patient Care
High Protein vs High Fat Argument : LCHF vs LCHP
The protein vs fat argument is not a new one, but itโs rising up strong again lately โ and definitely needs some clarification.
Because when itโs NOT clarified (with specifics) it just presents a LOT of confusion, and people go about making drastic changes without really understanding the details.
Or worse: stressing over the details.
For example, in this post on Twitter: Atkins vs Keto / Fat vs Protein Dr. Jay Wrigley aka @KetoDocCLT says:
โThe original Atkins diet worked beautifully for most everyone who followed it. Why ? Because it put no restrictions on Protein which is the most satiating & satisfying of the Macros. When Keto started restricting protein and jacking up the fatโฆresults seem to vary far more.โ
The original Atkins diet worked beautifully for most everyone who followed it. Why ? Because it put no restrictions on Protein which is the most satiating & satisfying of the Macros. When Keto started restricting protein and jacking up the fatโฆresults seem to vary far more.
โ Dr. Jay Wrigley (@KetoDocCLT) July 23, 2019
First, Atkins has always been about eating โadequate proteinโ and not โexcessive protein.โ They suggest you eat sufficient protein (a 4-6oz serving per meal) and that you donโt restrict fats โ as the fat is essential for both energy and weight loss when you restrict your carbs to such a low level.
Second, โketoโ didnโt restrict or jack anything up โ people just started making up their own rules, and mainly based on unfounded announcements made by other people, who made up their own rules. ๐
Taking just one example so you can get a visual, this Atkins recipe: Chorizo, Green Chili and Tomato Frittata has 24 grams of fat and 22 grams of protein.
That sounds about equal, right?
But when you enter a single serving into MyFitnessPal, it comes out to 68% fat and 28% protein. Why? Because some foods are both protein AND fat of varying amounts.
This is the part I donโt really see anyone clarifying with specifics in these LCHF vs LCHP (fat vs protein) discussions. ๐ค
As I said above, I can easily eat double the daily recommended amount of protein and still be eating โhigh fatโ (70% or more of my total daily calories).
On my recent trip to Austin when I was eating mostly plain meat with a little avocado, I was having MCT Oil in my morning coffee, and very fatty meats at my meals.
Hereโs an example of one meal logged in MyFitnessPal:
High protein? Yes. But obviously high fat โ too.
Just because someone says theyโre having better results eating high protein, doesnโt necessarily mean theyโre eating โlow fatโ โ and vice versa.
Unless you are logging and tracking your meals, or unless theyโre sharing their specific macros, itโs all GUESSWORK.
You could also make the case that just changing something up, whether itโs your fat or protein or calories or whatever, may cause you to break out of a plateau. Not that the actual thing you changed is the โmagic trickโ but that you shock your body by breaking a usual daily cycleโฆ and cause a shift. Bodies are complex things!
Sometimes Iโll play with different macros, all while staying within the usual keto macros (20 net carbs max, 70% fat minimum), such as increasing calories or increasing protein, or changing up the types of foods I eat even, and see a shift in weight and/or body composition โ just from โbreaking routineโ more than anything.
When you shake things up, your body has to adjust. ๐
Counting Calories on Keto โ or Not?
In addition to the โhigh fat / high proteinโ debates, there are many people in keto circles that believe you have to ALSO limit calories while youโre in ketosis.
In Mayraโs recent Instagram post she says, โYou still need to be in a calorie deficit to lose weight, even in ketosis.โ
I love her updates, by the way. But this post is confusing!
Here are the points she made in that post:
* You can be in ketosis and still gain weight.
* You still need a caloric deficit to lose weight.
* If you eat more calories than you burnโฆ regardless of Keto, Atkins, Vegan, Paleo, etcโฆ you will gain weight.
* Being in a state of ketosis makes it easier to lose weight because your hunger is suppressed and when youโre not eating, your body is burning your stored fat as energy/fuel.
* As for adding fats to your diet. In MY opinion, eating fatty meats, cream, cheese, eggs, avocado and green veggies is what is needed. You can add a little oil or butter to your food, but not in excess because you want your body to burn your own fat, right? If you add a ton of fat, well then your body needs to burn the fat you eat before tapping into your own fat stores for fuel.
Iโm not sure where sheโs getting this information. ๐คทโโ๏ธ
Other than the usual scale fluctuations, I have NEVER gained weight in ketosis, or sticking to keto macros consistently.
The only time I have ever gained true weight (other than a few pounds back and forth, normal fluctuations) was when I ate off plan, or cycled on and off a keto diet (cheating frequently).
If you gain 20 pounds โeating ketoโ consistently (20 net carbs max) then somethingโs not right. Either you arenโt tracking properly, or you have a major health problem.
As for caloriesโฆ
You know how you can lose inches or get leaner without your weight on the scale changing? Thatโs because your body composition is changing. The number on the scale is JUST about gravity (your total weight).
I can be the SAME weight I am today but several sizes smaller when I have more lean muscle and less body fat. I used to be this same weight I am now and be a size 4/6, but right now Iโm a size 8 for example.
Calories are just as misleading. Itโs just a number, like the one on your scales, and not the whole truth. Not all calories are created equal, and not all calories are stored/burned the same โ or the same in different bodies either.
Itโs more complex than that.
Things like thermogenesis and your basal metabolic rate have to be taken into consideration.
It goes back to bio-individuality.
No macro calculator on the world wide web can tell you how many calories you should or shouldnโt eat based on your BMR and your bodies own unique โheat indexโ and calorie burning rate.
Thereโs also the fact that some calories are stored, and some are burned.
Thatโs the reason I did the whole article on coconut oil vs mct oil, that being one of the primary differences between mct oil and coconut oil โ or between the quality of various mct oils.
A pure MCT C8/C10 Oil like this one stimulates thermogenesis, raises your metabolism, and bypasses the liver. You get a noticeable energy boost because your body immediately burns those calories โ and more calories. Versus coconut oil, which contains lauric acid and does NOT bypass the liver, thus calories stored in comparison.
See? Itโs more complex than CICO (calories in, calories out). ๐
Anyway, thatโs why I donโt worry about the calories in mct oil. Itโs also a SERIOUS appetite suppressant though, so I discover (just by interested observation) that I eat way less and therefore consume less calories on the days I use mct oil.
This whole thermo-thing is just one of the many benefits of a ketogenic diet, and how it causes your body to burn more calories and burn your body fat.
Keto gives you a metabolic advantage.
Again, see this excerpt from the 1972 edition of Dr. Atkins book.
Thereโs a science to the way a ketogenic low carb diet works. ๐
As for fat, sheโs obviously eating โhigh fatโ (fatty meats, cream, cheese, eggs, avocado). I agree that itโs ideal to eat whole food healthy fats that have good nutritional value.
That said, eating (new) fat actually stimulates your body to burn OLD fat.
Watch this video: Eating Fat To Burn Fat
I lost all of my weight eating 70-80% of my daily calories in fat, usually just high fat foods like: pecans, avocado, almond butter, cream cheese, cheese, salmon, chicken thighs, eggs, etc.
I still eat 70-80% fat and easily maintain my weight loss doing that.
Fasting Marathons & Fast-Bragging SCARE me ๐ณ
Lately it seems like everyone is competing on how long they can go without food.
Fasting is โthe hot thingโ in keto communities lately, but it has turned into bragging and competition โ which really concerns me.
Iโm concerned less about someone choosing to fast. Thereโs nothing new about religious or spiritual fasts, medical fasting, or even intermittent fasting (on any diet).
Itโs more concerning to see people pressured to (or pressuring themselves to) go as long as 90 hours without food. And why? So you can brag about it? Or to see how much weight you can lose in the least amount of time?
Geez. ๐
The mindset behind (most of) it doesnโt seem healthy to me AT ALL.
It borders on being an eating disorder in my personal opinion.
People ask me almost daily if I do fasting. This is my response:
I donโt do fasting, not intentionally anyway. I just eat when Iโm hungry and donโt when Iโm not.
You really want to focus more on mindfulness and on listening to your body, rather than trying to control everything (or โdietโ). But thatโs just my opinion and experience.
It all depends *why* you want to fast, so explore that a bit. ๐
Hereโs how the rest of that conversation went the last time someone asked me about fasting. Note the part about โobsessionโ which is what some (most actually) fasting puts me in mind of: obsessive compulsive type eating disorder.
On that note, someone said on Twitter that they did a โtotal reset on their microbiomeโ (gut flora) by fasting for 72 hours.
This intrigued me given my gut health issues, so I asked my gastroenterologist about it. He said NO, that wouldnโt reset anything. He said you would have to not eat anything at all for at least two full weeks to starve off ALL the bacteria in your gut as a total reset โ and did NOT recommend that of course.
Just because you read it on the interwebs does not make it true.
Keto Culture: Elitism & Extremists
Thereโs a lot of misinformation floating around the keto communities as you can see. Itโs enough to make your head spin.
Some of it is downright scary, but at the very least: exhausting.
Worse than that is the elitism and extremism rising up lately.
It seems everyone is trying to one-up each other, or arguing their own dogmatic beliefs with authority as if theyโre a hard rule (for everyone), and some are getting VERY extreme with food eliminations and extended fasting periods, etc.
Itโs all very confusing and discouraging and scary for anyone new to keto, or anyone trying to learn how to get started with a healthy low carb lifestyle!
Iโm not the only one that feels this wayโฆ
In Shawnโs post she states:
โSpending 3 years in the keto community opened my eyes to JUST HOW BAD โdiet cultureโ has intertwined itself into a space that is (and always has been) meant as a tool to heal the body. Like, itโs REALLY BAD. And it scares me and leaves a bad taste in my mouth, to be honest.
WE HAVE GONE ABOUT THIS ALL WRONG. And, Iโm having a hard time with it. Because here is what I know for sure. Your diet mindset, even if it IS with keto, is causing you more harm than good. A LOT MORE HARM.
Something needs to change. We need to change whatโs going on in our heads before we ever stand a chance of changing whatโs going on in the rest of our bodies. PERIOD.โ
Comments on that post from others include:
โIt can be so tough being a part of the keto community and not getting whiplash from the next shiny thing. Itโs scary how much counting and tracking and restricting is encouraged and often touted as the only way.โ
โExactly! Folks create such drama and angst when it comes to diet. Not healthy.โ
โKeto healed many things for me, but it replaced one unhealthy relationship with food with an obsession.โ
โItโs awful. Itโs like parenting. People just annihilate one another for different approaches, when realistically itโs about what works best for each individual person. Iโm tired of being ruled by other peopleโs emotions and Iโm so over being guilted into doing other junk just because others think that legalism is what works best.โ
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I see things like this constantly too, another sign of being obsessed with the scales or with trying to rush weight loss:
Itโs totally normal for the scales to โholdโ after you drop a significant amount of weight, by the way. Itโs simply a normal adjustment period โ your body has to adjust. Donโt do anything extreme, simply keep doing whatโs obviously working well for you and power through the brief โholdโ periods.
Itโs easy to get obsessed to the point that youโll TRY ANYTHING to get the scales to move. I get it. But always do your research before you try something, and also do your โsoul searchโ tooโฆ
Ask yourself WHY am I considering trying this or that?
Is it for a healthy reason, or unhealthy reason?
Just because โAllisonโ lost 8.4 pounds in 5 days doing a โbeef & butter fastโ doesnโt mean you should do that too. Allison probably carb-loaded right before that on a 3-day pizza & ice cream binge, and lost the water weight & inflammation she would have just cutting back to 20 net carbs max again.
Most of what you read online does not involve any clean testing, healthy weight loss mentality, or make any real nutritional sense.
โญ๏ธ Put everything you read through those three filters. โญ๏ธ
Tip: If you find yourself getting worked up, stressed out, obsessive, trying fads and gimmicks and ANYTHING to get the scale to moveโฆ STOP, take a deep breath, and just: eat for your health, period.
I used to be โon a dietโ too, and drove myself MAD chasing numbers and trying everything, only to get discouraged or disgusted and totally binge out in retaliation.
It was a vicious cycle.
If youโre on that roller coaster right now, STEP OFF.
Trust me, itโll be the best thing you ever do for yourself. ๐
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I mentioned Carnivore and Antinutrients briefly in my last post.
Carnivore means eating only meat, fish, and animal products, eliminating all other foods. Supposedly because vegetables contain antinutrients which makes vegetables bad for you. ๐
Note: If you choose to โCarnivore Ketoโ you MUST eat nose-to-tail animal parts, and especially organ meats, in order to get the nutrients youโll miss from all the other foods you eliminate.
Ack! ๐
Do you need electrolytes? No. Everyone is selling them, everyone is taking them, you donโt need them. I have never bought or used electrolyte supplements in over 8 years of eating a ketogenic low carb diet.
Just salt your food, donโt overdrink water, and have a nice hot mug of chicken broth if you need a boost.
You also do NOT need exogenous ketones. Iโll have to write a full post on this alone with ALL the details because this is a BIG issue that really scares me.
Just donโt take them, okay? ๐
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Another good post on Instagram from Shawn:
I like that. โฃ๏ธ
Beware The Viral Keto Graphics
Theyโre not all accurate.
Hereโs a popular โketo glossaryโ graphic thatโs floating around the web.
That last definition is totally off point. Iโve been eating LCHF for over 8 years, with the goal of being and staying in ketosis. ๐
Like I said in my last postโฆ
Your diet does not need a label.
You donโt need to be classified in a โsocial food groupโ such as strict keto, just low carb, lazy keto, dirty keto, paleo, carnivore, etc.
You simply need to find what works for you, for your specific health needs and desired results, and eat in a way that provides you with the widest range of nutrition and health benefits.
Learn to Listen to Your Body โ Instead of Listening to Everyone Else
There are no hard and fast rules, there is no Right and Wrong that is set in stone.
There are some basic concepts that you do need to follow to get and stay in ketosis, and there is a science to how it works. Then thereโs bio-individuality.
Learn the basics.
Learn the science.
Learn YOU.
Then keep learning to listen as your body heals, improvesโฆ and changes over time.
What worked for me 8 years ago when I first started is not at all how I eat now. I came off a horrible diet and a terrible relationship with food. I was a binge eater to the max, and ate tons of processed junk food.
I made an easy transition into ketosis eating all the bars (literally, the whole box โ lol), a pound of bacon dipped in mayo, still binge eating and trying all the low carb replacement foods.
But guess what? It worked. I lost 8 pounds in the first 10 days, got into ketosis and had WAY less appetite, and slowly started improving my food choices and my relationship with food from there.
My journey is STILL evolving.
What I needed to eat, or the macros I needed to mind a year ago to maintain nutritional ketosis โ is not the same for me now, one year later. My body is changing. We go through different periods of illness and wellness, various phases of healing from past damage, your thermogenesis and metabolic rate can change, you can increase your ketone levels and expand your carb tolerance.
SO many things can change and improve when you start focusing on nutrition, your own personal health, and on listening to your body more. โค๏ธ
With that comes testing, and learning to perform โclean testsโ on yourself to identify your own food culprits, health issues, etc.
Start with the basics and ignore everything else.
Or: start over with the basics and erase everything else youโve learned.
Limit your carbs to the point that you get and stay in nutritional ketosis. You donโt need any products to achieve this. Simply eat 20 net carbs max and plenty of healthy fats.
Thatโs a good starting point for anyone.
Itโs where I STAYED for almost 8 full years, even.
As for the state of our Keto Community, I would love to see:
NO dogma
NO judgments
MORE open discussions
NO medical advice
MORE support & encouragement
NO defensive bickering
NO bragging about starving yourself
NO food shaming or body shaming
Those things do NOT serve the community, or you, or anyone else โ not the people involved, and especially not the others silently following along getting more and more confused โ and likely giving up because they feel defeated.
THAT makes me sad.
If I had stepped into the current โketo cultureโ when I started my own low carb journeyโฆ I would have totally freaked out โ and backed out. I hate to think others are being scared away from becoming the happiest healthiest version of themselves. ๐
This was long, and I (barely) covered A LOT of different topics. Iโd love to hear YOUR thoughts, and any questions this raised for you.
What has your experience been?
As always, Iโm here for youโฆ.
Iโm happy to help any way I can, or at least try to point you in the right direction to get some real answers on anything you feel concerned or unsure about.
What are your thoughts on fat, protein, calories, fasting or the current state of the keto communities?
Letโs talk! ๐
Best,
Lynn Terry,
aka @LowCarbTraveler
p.s. If youโre struggling, suffering, going hungry, stressing out, feeling deprived or obsessing โ itโs time to STOP and get โketo happy!โ
Are you with me on that?!




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Iโm on my third week of keto. Iโve been really hungry the last few days. I wonder if Iโm not eating enough fat. Iโve been between 20- 25 net carbs but my fat has been between 60-70 percent
Hi Melissa,
The only real way to know for sure is to test that. Increase your fat to 75-80% for a full week and see how that feels. Eat chicken wings or chicken thighs instead of breast, salmon instead of white fish, avocado is great as are pecans, nut butters, cream cheese, alfredo sauce on your veggies is delicious, etc.
A few things to consider:
It could be a time in your hormone cycle that you have an increased appetite.
You may be eating something that is triggering hunger or cravings, so consider potential food culprits.
Something you ate may have kicked you out of ketosis, in which case the appetite will return.
The ideal thing to do is eat super clean, as few ingredients as possible, no products for a full week, 20 net carbs and plenty of healthy fats. See if that takes care of it. ๐
Thank you for your quick response. I will definitely be trouble shooting. I do tend to eat whole foods. I wonder if my lunch meal prep this week is contributing to it. We shall see. As always thank you for your response and article. I enjoy reading them.
Thank you Melissa. Keep me posted on what you discover! Hopefully itโs something simple. ๐ *cheers*
Lynn what is your take on gastric bypass and low carb ? Should anything be different ?
I am back on my eating plan ( <20 net carbs) I lose inches easy and weight slowly. Mostly I think to my age of 59 and how seditary Iโve become -arthritis being part of the culprit.
Just want to see what your opinion was.
Hi Lynn,
Iโm not personally familiar with gastric bypass but from what I understand they put you on a low carb diet afterward, yes? I would definitely talk to your nutritionist or doctor about any specific eating requirements.
Worry less about the scales and more about mindful eating, healthy choices, and getting and staying in ketosis. That (ketosis) will help a lot with the arthritis pain as it alleviates inflammation.
Carbs promote inflammation in the body, which is hard on those of us with inflammatory issues! I too suffer which is why I stay in nutritional ketosis and plan to for life. Itโs the only thing that keeps me on my feet and out of physical therapy & off pain meds! ๐
This was a great article, thanks for everything!
Great, in depth article! Iโm looking forward to your info on exogenous ketonesโฆ.
Iโm still struggling to get back into ketosis. I do well for a day then fall off and eat something I shouldnโt! Ugh, my dang sweet tooth!!! Iโm such an emotional eater at times. So your digestive issues are better? My gerd is acting up again because of my bad food choices and weight gain. Iโm going to really try to focus on 20 net carbs a day and get back on track. Thanks again for being so real! ๐
Hi Linda,
My advice is to just commit to FIVE full days of 20 net carbs. You can do anything for 5 days! ๐ Make it easy โ prepare with low carb sweet things you can have, so you donโt feel deprived, and to keep your sweet tooth satisfied during those 5 days.
After that youโll be in ketosis, which is a natural appetite suppressant and curbs cravings โ plus youโll see RESULTS โ both of which just make it EASY from there. ๐
But to start, just do 5 days.
When I first started I had to rely on replacements to stay on track and not go off the rails and binge. Things like Atkins candy or Russell Stover sugar free candy really helped. I also kept sugar free Wertherโs Originals on me at ALL times, because theyโre super rich & creamy and last forever โ so Iโd pop one of those in my mouth when I felt that urge coming on.
Whatever it takes!! xo
Thank you Thank you Lynn!!
Great article u touch on alot and itโs greatly appreciated!! Giving your opinion and researching means alot. I am a long time follower and enjoy your page. I have been living low carb for 5 years and it just about healthy eating and your mindset. 90lbs 5 years still holding lol
Thanks
Franna
The thing that I struggle with the most, is that people who post their opinions are so adamant that they are RIGHT and have the only advice that people should follow. I appreciate you for not being that way. Your blog was the first that I followed 3 yrs ago. I have added some, mostly to find recipes, but I cant really deal with the drama and hatefulness and i wind up removing myself. Some have been so complicated that it was mind-blowing, i am college educated and couldnโt figure out what formula was supposed to work for me. You are very โnormalโ and down-to-earth! ๐
I totally get it, Kim. When I first started I did all sorts of things โwrongโ (ie, not perfect lol) and got SERIOUS HEAT over it. Every single time I got โflamedโ it sent me into an emotional binge eating spree โ totally off the rails.
Itโs so DIScouraging, especially for people who are actually TRYING or really want to make positive change, but obviously have addictions or eating disorders, or just BIG changes to make.
Support and encouragement and helpful ideas would be so much better for everyoneโฆ
I AM SO INTERESTED IN YOUR THOUGHTS AND IDEAS, BUT YOUR POSTS/EMAILS ARE SO VERY LONG! I GET CONFUSED AND TIRED AND NEVER FINISH THEM. IN EVERY ONE, THERE ARE SEVERAL POSTS TO CLICK ON AND SEE AN EXPLANATION OR SOMEONE ELSEโS POST, AND THAT TAKES ME DOWN ANOTHER AVENUE!
MAYBE I AM THE ONLY ONE, BUT I BELIEVE SIMPLE IS BETTER. EATING HEALTHY AND FOLLOWING SOME KIND OF PLAN SHOULD NOT BE SO DIFFICULT. I WANT YOUR POSTS TO ENCOURAGE ME NOT MAKE ME FEEL OVERWHELMED.
Thank you so much for the feedback, Yvonne! Itโs actually a relief, because *I* get exhausted trying to write the longer posts. I think it would be better for you and I both if I addressed โmicro topicsโ in smaller bits, and then perhaps made a โTable of Contentsโ somewhere so people could read through each of the points that interest them most.
Thank you for the inspiration! ๐
In the meantime, it might help to choose the part of this post that interests you most, and just focus on that part. OR, feel free to ask me any question you have and we can discuss that specifically.
Thank you so much Lynn for this post!!! For clarifying the โfat and fasting!โ I had to unfollow some โKeto/Fastingโ people. Before I unfollwed the one lady you mentioned(whom i loved following her for her recipes and family life) the โburning fat you take in before your own fatโ was confusing me. And If i try to fast like that, I will binge big time!!! Ive actually quit LC for awhile because all the โsupposedly newโ info was way to much! After readig your article, Im starting back to basics today and whats healthy for me and my body! I cant thank you enoughโค
That makes my day, Diana โ and made this whole post worth writing. ๐ Iโm so glad youโre going back to your goal of happy & healthy!!
I am the same way, by the way. NOT eating is a problem for me personally โ a way of controlling things, or it makes me start feeling obsessive/compulsive. Coming from a history of eating disorders, fasting is not something that โfeels healthyโ for me personally.
That said, there are times I skip meals โ because Iโm not hungry. And that to me is fine. Itโs about being mindful, listening to my body, and sticking to: eat when Iโm hungry, donโt when Iโm not.
But if I feel deprived or Iโm struggling or Iโm pushing myself too hard => BINGE ๐ lol, ugh.
Easy is GOOD. ๐ Keep it simple, and enjoy the results!! *cheers*
With regard to the commenter who complained about the length of your articles and the abundant citations โ I just want to offer an opposing point of view. I find your in-depth articles very helpful and appreciate the time and effort you put into keeping us well informed. Your articles are always interesting and intelligent, thoughtful and well-written.The fact that you provide so many citations just goes to show that you did your research. Readers who donโt have the patience to delve deeply into the material have the option of just skimming it for general meaning. Guess you canโt please everybody. But for the rest of us, itโs nice to have all that information laid out for us. Thank you and keep up the great work!
I appreciate your feedback (too), Dora. ๐ I think there are a lot of people like me that have things coming at them from all different directions: articles, tweets, Instagram posts, Facebook group discussions, etc etc. It was my goal to point out the variety of information Iโm seeing myself and how itโs all very confusing, and not at all specific enough to be helpful!
I do try to include links to further reading to avoid having to make the post any longer with drawn out explanations โ and also to give references and resources to those that love to dig deeper. But at least theyโre optional when I link to them instead of write a diatribe on it myself. ๐ lol
I hope at the very least, for the skimmers, that my main point of โgo back to the basics, learn how it works, listen to your body, keep it simpleโ was loud and clear โ and gave them some hope and relief.
Thank you again! I love ALL the feedback. ๐
I agree with all Dora A said. I donโt know how you keep your patience and happy personality but it is totally, truly appreciated โค๏ธ
Great article!! Like always! I love your insights and you give me a new way to look at things. Thank you so much
Excellent article and point if view!
You have been so helpful to me in this journey.
Huge thanks and life changing if people foow your way
I find your posts so insightful and I love your down-to-earth approach. Iโm not doing Keto but I regularly read your content looking for healthier eating ideas. Youโve inspired me to be much bolder in trying new things. ๐